Thanks Bill wish everyone a happy new year too, I hope it is also full of healing and love Aly ... It's that time of year when many drink and make merry with...
Forgive me for being selfish and just sending the poem and not responding to your post. Your commitment to your marriage is admirable and I wish you the ...
In a message dated 12/31/2005 1:22:20 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, potterlike@... writes: To Kris: I want to thank you for your words which must impact...
I think this is the third time recently i posted a message calle "letting go" because i truly dont know if i have. Its new years day and i am really feeling...
Shell, I am not sure I can give you the feedback you are looking for, since I know I could not let go and at the same time "stand by at a distance....until she...
shell, so sorry for your pain... all i can say is that for me, as miserable as all this is now, may 15th was at least someplace to begin.. even if it was the...
Thank you Bill and to all of you thank you for helping me and my partner cope with these past few months,as of this very moment ,which we all know is the waay...
Shell, first let me state I admire your courage to try and let her have her space to heal, frm my experience until she actually starts healing and even...
There is nothing you can do to be right.Whatever you say and do will find a challenge from her.Go and take some time away from this if you can, and remember...
Find me on that lonely partner's road, paved with broken love. I stagger with hopelessness and fall down, drunk with sadness. Paying the toll to travel here ...
In reading the posts tonight a thought occured to me. Letting go/staying with and Love are seperate issues and I am going to start attempting to think of them...
Hello All, First-Happy New Year to everyone and I do hope that this year will bring happiness to all on this board. I have not posted for some time but I...
Angelblue.Don't ever feel like you didn't do enough or stay longer.Your heart IS in the right place.Many hang on longer than they should--when all signs point...
It hit me that my partner was yur age and I am closer to yur partners age Thankyu for yur POS and sharing. So much of this I really relate to!!! I dont know if...
thanks Scott wheellug <wheellug@...> wrote: In reading the posts tonight a thought occured to me. Letting go/staying with and Love are seperate issues...
I agree with you Bill, like wise, from my own personal experience of twenty one years, this same scenario has been played out time after time, I wish I had...
I too agree with Bill and thanks Timothy for taking the time and effort to write what is so so true for me anyways...I too thought I can just hang in just a...
I am very grateful for this group, as I feel I can touch even a little sanity and processing of this confusion. My fiance and I have decided to postpone our...
... Which is utterly and absolutely normal for a survivor to not want to have sex. ... If your fiance were in a car accident and made a quadriplegic who was ...
... me ... move in ... did ... have ... leave. ... parents to ... not ... surgery ... assumed ... ring ... in ... Partner ... less ... finally ... you ... ...
you too...wishing everyone clarity and peace... thank you all for the insight daisymae542003 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote: Happy New Year guys, I hope...
To those who have taken the time to respond, I do appreciate you sharing your own stories and words of wisdom. It is so heartwrenching to walk away from love...
It might help you to understand what you are dealing with his behavior if you would read the book, "Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them". It will...
... to ... compassion ... It is horrible that anyone has to go through abuse. Commpassion for what they have gone through is important. but we are all...
In your title, "Need closure to move on..." I am stuck by one thought. We each find that closure in different ways and different places. This goes for those of...
I am going through this with my partner of 8 years and, yes it is difficult. From what I have read, this is very normal and not necessarily a permanant. I...
The question is ok to ask.What I'll ask you: is it your wish to be married and raise a family?Pretty hard to do without sex.And are you able to martyr...
... Bill: I understand what you're getting at, but there are millions of couples in the US alone who have adopted, used AI, in vitro fertilization and other...
