Hello T and Welcome, I would like to start off by saying I hope that I do not come across as too critical in my reply to you, that is not my intention at all....
Your question is something natural to ask. I can tell you it is something that will not have an answer; and should you receive one, it will only lead to more...
Hello T and welcome to the group. I'm Daisy, I'm also a survivor and have been married 11 years. I will do my best to give you what insite I can. ... by ... ...
I really like how you put that, thank you. Lady_Shadow <ladyshadowwalker60@...> wrote: Your partner is not going motivated to change b/c she has what...
Are there any survivors out there that can enlighten me about what goes on as an in-patient in a facility that deals with PTSD and sexual abuse? My wife is a...
Bk, Your point of view has not always been the most received one here but you have always been just what I needed at the right times for support. When I ...
I ran through the industrial park in a strange town on sidewalks that nobody ever walks on. As huge shiny metal birds roar overhead and the hum of traffic...
BK, I wish you the best. You are an amazing human being. My prospective on life, love, and myself have been changed and better examined from the thoughts you...
BK, I am honored to counted amoung your friends. You have been a good friend to me also. I can tell you life "after" all this is good. I wish you all the...
Hello... My name is Hannah and I am new to this group. I am a lesbian partner to a woman, Cyn, who is struggling with incest abuse. Her mother was her...
Another strange city and another cold morning run. The same hum of traffic and roar of jets. Slowly as my body warms, I begin to retreat into the caccoon...
Hello Hannah, welcome to the group. Seems to me you are on the right track in regards to dealing with your partner. Vent here all you need to, ask questions...
Erik, I am really enjoying you sharing your thoughts the way you have been. Your writtings are eloquent and so powerful that it seems I can hear, see and feel...
Welcome Hannah.It will help you to read through some past posts here--- I wouldn't doubt that most situations have been talked about on this site---as well as...
Daisy, I think about things all the time when I am working out. Thank you for the compliments. I'll try to send a few more in as they come to me. Erik ...
Hello, my name is Annette, and I am the lesbian partner of an abuse survivor. She suffered sexual abuse at the hands of her father and her former husband of 15...
Hey folks, Wrote this on the way home tonight as I drove into the most spectacular sunset. I pulled off the interstate and jotted it down. Doesn't have...
My heart goes out to you. It has become increasing apparent that women too can sexually abuse. My ex was abused by his grandmother. I've run across titles...
Annette, Welcome - I can relate I was a partner to a "multie" for 24 years. Its really difficult to be with someone with DID. I will try to answer your...
Hi Everyone... Thanks to all who have welcomed me and given their advice and thoughts, recommended book and shared poetry-- Part of what drove me to find this...
I think most, if not all of us understand your feelings when it comes to loneliness and deprivation of affection.And the missing sex too, which makes us feel...
The morning of Sept 11th 2001 I was walking into my hotel room in Italy. I had arrived tired, hungry and bikeless. Thank you Swissair. As I turned on the...
... Contrary to ... that ... trying to drown it ... pain ever ... Excellent points Erik. I think that is why you see, what could be said as, compulsive...
I have been with my girlfriend/partner for over 7 years. Two years ago she recover incest memories while having sex with me. Needless to say, the road since...
