Yeah, I feel ya...over it is over. I am taking it slow making sure I am doing what I want to do and not being the cure all anymore. Most of this I was...
Alright I am a victim of date rape. I am not here to talk about my issues but I am worried about my boyfriend or ex boyfriend I guess I should say now. Anyway,...
I still have confusion on this issue, As much as I was possibly co- dependent if you wish, I still feel like I had to do everything possible before I agreed to...
Hello..............one month ago I found out that my boyfriend was sexually ,physically,mentally,verbally and neglectfully abused!My world with him has beena...
Hey Lovey, I hope that you are taking care of yourself too. It is very easy to get lost in someone else's hurt and healing. But unless you have your oxygen...
Kayla, I know this isn't probably want you want to hear, but I would question any boyfriend who can't accept or support you with regard to an issue that HAS to...
I am glad you found your way here, Brenda's advice on this is very good. There is that period of time when I was engulfed in the research and the process of...
hey simon never been in the military - no problem on the mixup not worth worrying about.as to the reason i post - Its my hope that one of my opinions might...
That was very powerful!I am with a survivor...........................who was tortured in everyway possible!I found out 4 weeks ago!I can't explain how my ...
As a survivor myself, I agree with Brenda. I won't say he is an awful person for having questions. But if he cannot respect the fact that you don't remember...
The best advise I can give is learn what you can about the after affects of CSA but do not wrap yourself up in it. The books may explain things but aren't...
Thank you for your words Kim ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com. [Non-text portions of this message have been...
hi kim ! Great to meet you ! Sounds very much like my reaction ! It's quite a shock when the reality of such things hits you ! I believe you are having a...
Yes, not sleeping, not eating, head swimming with questions and new information. Fear, confusion, hearbreak, there is a lot on your plate. Something I wish I...
Thank you so much for your quick response and for your support ,it means more than you will ever know.I found out about the abuse April first!We were gong ...
About Leaving A guide to leaving a partner with borderline personality disorder Perhaps as many as 10 - 14% of the general population suffer from Borderline...
Why does he have this insecurity about needing to know the details of what you went through? Why can't he stay with and love someone with questions in the...
I have spoke with a counselor about my issues and she is worried that I am putting too much focus on him. I care about him so much. Before all this happened we...
Hi Kim I have only just come back to the site after a big break doing other things. I read your your heart moving situation and had these thoughts to share. I...
I wasn't dating her at the time it occured at age 16. You love him, and care deeply for him. It does seem that he is dealing with something he does not know...
No matter how much i think ive heard it all each new story sets me to flame ! Alright - lets start with what i believe - let me know how i do - and you are...
Hi simon ! awefull quiet -i know i laid a heavy thought on you !lots of pain at risk ! do you still love her ? come on brother talk to me . was her abuse long...
hello Liz ! I so wish that there was more fine input like your post ! Not one point could i disagree on - anyway thank you for takeing time to post - that is...
I want to say (to simon)that it occured to me that i may have been pushy or otherwise rude . please let me say "i'm sorry man" . I have been reading past...
Thank you dso much .........................I am so happy that I have people who can support me in my time of need......................................Kim ...
I have some experience in this situation as well, we all have so much in commom around here... I had a partner who had been raped in her sleep at a party, it...
Good point, yes there is a fear. POssibly for very good reason. It is a tough thing sometimes to find someone(therapist) that knows what they are doing. ...
Yes, what I did was when my wife told me she wanted a divorce I asked her to do therapy with me, it was like I had said the worst thing imaginable to her. Her...
