... I'm still skeptical. And even if you had for the two seconds it took to cuss her out, after everything you've been patient with, I would have hoped for...
Alisa, I would like to interject that the whole blame thing, especially when it is related to outbursts from the partner, is something I think is a trait in...
Right now i'm persuing reconsiliation, can't understand why God won't let me stop loving her. She is trying to find a counseler or therapist. We both agreed...
Ragnorok, We all must do what we must. We must feel that we have done all that we can and then there are those who can make it work. Do what you must so that...
Genesis... I like that and I think you bring up a very good point. offering hope to the new arrivals. I think it may be time for a new group. I want to call...
Simon, I am way against you leaving this forum! I found this wonderful place about one month into my nightmare. So I have been here for over six months now....
This is not a success story. I put up a post over a month ago when my boyfriend and I were having problems. I was hopeful that we could work things out, but as...
... Hey Simon, Could you throw a little of that mojo my way, cuz e-Harmony just ain't cutting it. ;) Rob, Welcome to the world, big brother. Like a phoenix...
Hey Caad, ... Oh hon, I'm so sorry. That had to be a slap in the face with a 2x4. Even he may not have the answer for you. But I know it happens. It just...
Alright, alright,not going anywhere...wow, this has been a couple of weeks just packed with experiences for me. Never knowing just how much of an impact I...
Hi all, First of all, I agree, Simon, don't leave us just yet. I value the people who post here, more than I've ever said, so just to let you know, Rob, Simon,...
Okay, here is the mojo guys. Nick said something that helped me develop what it was that made things click for me. Looking back at what happened for Rob, I...
... Yeah, I'm pretty much a Hottie McHotsalot. j/k --but thank you for the compliment just the same. :) ... Pout. Can't I just break my collarbone? I do...
What follows is the kind of stuff I figure possibly (probably) doesn't belong here. I've lost 44 pounds in the last 11 months. I had always said I would give...
There are consequences... I know that there was a question as to whether our partners slept with their clothes on or off, but here is a question for you, how...
Thank you for writing, Simon. Was really hoping someone would be around this weekend and very happy to see it was you. I had said to someone on another...
Rob wrote, "(Simon puts it a lot better than that)...I agree, turn your fan on and start giving some more of that good stuff away." I don't know Rob, I kind of...
Hey Rob, Thanks for writing. ... Wow. Sad to say that never occurred to me, and as soon as I read it my first thought was, if it was a loss then it should...
Brenda wrote "often survivors have to stop healing for a while because it's too much for them, or that they need to slow it down. Shelley suggested being with...
... Wow. Very true indeed. I know with my ex, his new fiancee's family is THRILLED to have him back -- though God only knows why, given how much he cheated...
"Off putting" That is the word that you used right... Well I love you guys, and because I love you guys I am not going to sugar coat my feelings or my...
... Good! I, for one, am not a sugar-coat-it kind of girl. :) ... I like etymology, and looked up forgiveness just to clarify in my mind what that is exactly: ...
Good being angry is actually a step in the right direction. Actually I think you have been angry for a long time, you just haven't allowed yourself to feel it...
I forgive my survivor so much more easily than I forgive myself, that is kind of a running theme around here isn't it?..., so I am just trying to fit in with...
I'll write more later, but I was given some really good quotes today and wanted to pass them along to you all. Love Brenda "If I freely choose to give you, all...
Thanks guys. I love you and I'm so glad you're here. ... You don't have to hold back on my account. I appreciate that you can say the hard stuff when it...
Here is just a quick update. My X and I still share the car, we trade it back and forth with no schedule, we still run a business together as well. It can be...
That's great you get along, and can talk. That would be a dream come true for me. Victims have such a large spectrum of emotional/psychological/compulsive...
Hi Nick, :) ... Was she ever formally diagnosed? With either Borderline or PTSD or attachment disorder stuff? Some of that is, of course, par for the course...
