Hear Hear, I agree so much with Shady and the mentioned site. I have been away from this club for a while. It is not forgotten, only that I often cannot visit...
I admire your great strength and will do anything I can do to support you. I feel myself in your situation, I have been reading briefly the messages, and still...
Simon, Good to hear you are healing!I concure with what you say in your last sentences. Hang in there and, as I think you know, I can empatize! Good thoughts...
I too frequently take breaks from here to let the scars thicken as it were. Hopefully, one day we'll all be away from here though because we no longer need ...
nier: It's hard to seperate who was abused, when you're so close to the situation. I'll remember you in my thots&prayers. Keep healing&loving...pn55...
D, Thanks for joining us here, this is a really supportive place in a world that doesn't understand much about why we stay in our relationships - given the ...
Dan, Thank-you for your thoughts. Unfortunately Sweety left over a year ago--she chose to leave some-one she loved rather than deal with it. I won't go into it...
Oddly that makes our storie's the same. M did indeed end our marriage rather than face the issues her past abuse brought into it.<br><br>IM me sometime if you...
I'm so glad I have found a place to talk to people who can relate to what I am going through & give me more than just "out of the box" opinions. I'm glad to...
Hey guys... thanks for the concern. To be honest, I'm not sure why I even checked back here.<br><br>I would have to say that things are officially over. Part ...
TCP, I am relieved to hear from you...sad and glad for you at the same time. I'm so glad that although you are sad you get that there are lots of women out...
The last 2 posts are a little frightening when I look at how I have decided to stay with my spouse who has been supporting me the last couple of days as ...
The last 2 posts are a little frightening when I look at how I have decided to stay with my spouse who has been supporting me the last couple of days as ...
"D": Thanx for posting again. When we make a decision to stay, it is built on hope/faith, and that's all we have to hang on too sometimes. As my wife heals...
Part of the success of this club and site is that we members are comfortable with each other. The success of this site also includes the fact much of what we...
Thank you for your kind words. In fact, I shall begin carrying a pic of me the child. It may help. Please feel free to send your thoughts. I am open to all...
My wife if 2 1/2 years was sexually, emotionally, and physically abused by her dad starting from as young as 6 as far as she can remember. I love her more then...
Hi everybody, i"m glad i found this site...wish i would have found it earlier, but better late than never. Thanks M. for the support you given me, your a real...
Your post suggests some concerns... My peak use of this site was early 2000 as a partner of a survivor and I have no doubt have missed a lot.<br><br>If there...
You've brought up a lot of issues in your post. Her complete turnaround may indeed be a symptom of SA as often it is an "all or nothing" attitude towards ...
I've just found out that my boyfriend was abused as a child. He told me a minimil amount and I doubt whether I'll be able to get him to talk about it again ...
ghost: I can relate to your feelings, but believe me--you don't wish it happened to you!!! I felt the same way when my wife started sharing her past with me: ...
simon: your sounding good!! Thanx for your words of encouragement and challenge!! Blessings as you (we) work toward breaking the silence. I try to bring it up...
That's actually a very good word for all of this. Surreal. Im glad you found this club, and writing to us and keeping a journal for yourself may help bring ...
I just wanted to say thankyou to the people that helped me understand what a survivor might feel. While many of us think that we can be the one that a survivor...
Thanks so much for the responses. I won't push him to talk about this and I don't know if or when he will again. He has quite a bit of difficulty communicating...
I received an email from another partner who wished to join this group but Yahoo says the club has been deleted... I am unsure of what the problem is but ...
Note, the original message is too long, so have to cut this into 2 posts; sorry.<br><br>OK, here I go. It has been a while since I posted here. Quite frankly,...
