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hi, my name is ruby. i am 22 years of age and i reside in new york city. my partner is a 21 year old female who was sexually and physically abused for most of...
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ashley, hi, i'm ruby (i'm new). the situation with your gf sounds really scary, and i'm sure it's really hard for you to see your gf hurting herself like this....
To get to the piont I am in pain because my marrage is falling apart, I love my wife she says marriage is dragging her asd of last year our sexual life is ...
Love my wife she is survivor our marriage is falling apart I have no ware to turn to. I need all the friends I can get. Need New Yotrk contacts please feel...
Hello my name is Ashley, and my boyfriend Mike and I have been together for about 2 years now, I know it sounds elementary to some of you folks that have been ...
Ashley, As a nurse who works in the ER I can only tell you that maybe if he is able to be in the examining room during your examination he will see that there...
... couceling helped my wife alot! and we were able to pull thru. a book you could read is ALLIES IN HEALING. its great, and has alot of help within its...
... extremely ... we ... a ... in ... pn55, and i'm married to a survivor.i read ALLIES IN HEALING. it helped alot--making things clearer, and setting them out...
Hello Everyone, I am 25 years old, I live in Poughkeepsie, NY and I am also a partner of a survivor. I am currently engaged to my partner and we have been...
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I posted once about 2 months ago and I just recently started reading the board again. I have a real hard time trying to understand my wife and her past. She...
Thanks Postnorthern55 for replying back to me. What you said about survivors not being able to be close for a long time after the abuse certainly rings true...
Chuch Swindoll says, "You're over the hill when: (a) the stewardess offers you coffee, tea, or Milk of Magnesia; (b) you sink your teeth into a juicy steak,...
A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked who would like this $20 bill? Hands started going up. He...
Ashley, I wanted to thank you for the very encouraging message you sent to the group it was very much appreciated by me. Thanks kayssprout Yahoo! Groups...
... Thank you too Ashley.Much appreciated.I'm sure, along with myself, most partners feel crumpled and dirty and unsure of their value anymore.Take care:Bill...
... reading the board again. I have a real hard time trying to understand my wife and her past. She was sexually abused when she was younger, and we didn't...
... *********************************** Greetings to Brooklyn, There is obviously a lot pain in your message and situation. I would agree and recommend you...
Thanks for the advice, I am taking things one day at a time here. We go to counseling together regularly, and we are just starting to address some of the more...
hi, I am new here. I have girlfriend, first in my life (it means I was heterosexual, at least, I thought so). then I felt in love with a year younger girl from...
Hi i am new. my firs lesbian relationship. first person that i have orgazm with. several months after explosive beggining she told me that she is victiom of...
My wife stopped having sex sometime ago and has been in therapy for quite some time. Her father was an alcoholic and she has broken off relations with him...
... talk ... Hi JJ.From what you say there is no doubt of the parental abuse.But you already know that by just asking, right?If you push things with your wife,...
Hello all... I'm new to the group today and I'm here to find other people in the same position that I can talk to... My partner and I are both 21 year old...
Hi Erine... I can so relate. I am also in a relationship with another woman who was abused as a child by her father and then others. I get so mad I could...
Dear Renay my name is Herb, as of last week my wife left she is a survivor. You are right I am not alone. In my heart I need to forgive her and show her my...
My wife and I read an article about partners of sexual abuse survivors last night about how difficult it is for partners. It was good to know that my wife and...