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Hey PrettyGumbo, I hope you had a great Christmas. Mine was a very strange and sad one, Christmas eve was tense and uncomfortable with Dianne (no one actually...
Hey Buddy, How are you doing? My mom is moving from Brooklyn back to Germany. She is leaving on Jan.10th. So I've been busy lately. I'll be sad to see her go ...
Hey Glenn, Thanks for the great letter. I think what you needed from Dianne was closure. I hope I spelled that right. Maybe now it will be a little easier to ...
My Dear PrettyGumbo, thanks for the reply, I am so glad that things aren't too bleak for you. I am so glad that you are able to talk so freely, I thought I was...
Alexia, Thanks for replying to my poem earlier. I will be gone for about 4 days on a trip to see my dad. I hope you have a nice weekend!! Hugs, Ashley ...
Hi all, Hope the New Year brings us all better things! I'm looking for any information, tips, advice for starting a local support group. There are no incest...
... Prerttygumbo if you remember I live in Brooklyns east Willamsburge and remembered your mom live in bayridge I think. I have myself travel to Dussedolf a...
Guys, got another little bit of the story last night. My gf is writing a "truth book' detailing her abuse so she can face it and share it with her family. She...
Hey Vin, I know it's hard just remember she's not being abused right now, she's safe now. I'm not sure how I'll handle his memories once they suface or even if...
Hey Glenn, Wow it sounds to me that you're doing a lot better. As for Linda it takes a big person to understand what you're going through, so to me she sounds ...
Hey Herb, Yes my mom was in Bayridge but I live in PA. I happy to hear that you're still dancing. Next time I'm going to the city I'll have to let you know. ...
I'm dealing a little better now. Broke down and cried with her... Yeah, I hate to admit it but counseling is definitely in order. She is definitely doing...
Hey PG, thanks for your wise words. I'm so angry I could just... I don'teven know. I have fantasies of going down to DC and just smacking her upside the head...
I'm very thankful to have this forum in which to vent. My gf told me of her abuse only about 3 months ago. She is in therapy and I am so proud of her. I was...
Hey Vin, jesus, I so know where you are. My gf told me only a very few things before we broke up and it made me sick. Literally. I was throwing up for about a...
I am new here, love the posts, they help me remeber I am not insane or the only one who is going through this; aside from my partner. My partner and I have...
Hey Alexia, It's great to hear from you. I think maybe it's so hard to forget about them because we watched them turn almost into a different person. I know...
Hi Kris and Welcome to the group, Well I'm no expert but I have a lot of experience behind me, so I think I'll give your questions a whirl. First of all I too...
Chris, I'm sorry that her demons are driving her from you. I wish I could offer hope, sage advice or even real comfort. It doesn't sound like ever made a real...
Hi Chris and Welcome to the group, First thing I'm going to say to you is you are NOT the bad guy or the problem. Don't blame yourself!!!!!!! That's very...
Hi Chris, you've done a wonderful thing for yourself by posting here. This is the place where you can and should let it all hang out. Whatever you need to say....
Secondary victims, yeah that sums it up pretty terribly (accurately). Its amazing that the actions of some sick f*** decades ago can completely devastate us as...
... Anytime, please feel free to call, there are placea to dance and more that happy to accomodate. ===== Herb Alicea 718-486-5102 783 Grand Street apt 3R ...
Thanks to all of you for your replies. So I have a rpoblem, she called last night and she is scared now that the ramifications of her choice to leave are...
Hi Chris, Jeez, I feel for you. I've been there. I think that not knowing what to do is an okay place to be for a while. I think that you should allow yourself...
Ok folks I need some advice, as you all know I'm involved with a wonderful woman who is so understanding and loving. I'm beginning to feel it's a lot more than...
Hi Chris, Just wanted to say that it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Don't doubt yourself I'm sure you'll come up with the right answer. ...
Hey Glenn, I'm in exactly the same place so here are some comforting words from a kindred: YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON. YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE ALONE. None of...
Hey Bud, Stop beating yourself!!!!!!!!!!!! Everything you're feeling now is normal. Jeez you were with Dianne for sooo long. Feelings don't just turn off ...
