You say, "... she still obsesses about her on line thing, and how someone who was meant to love her could abuse her. I think L feels that if he, and her...
Kathy, your response to another post contained the paragraph quoted below (plus some, I'm trying to not put too much in the message) and it rang a bell. M...
Hi, new to the group, and thanks for being here. My wife has been going to therapy for some time. Our insurance has run out of authorizations, and our finances...
Try some place like Catholic Charities. While run by the Catholic church, they don't push their faith on you and they do have a sliding scale. I believe...
Kathy's reply is so right on the money. My wife and I have been surviving this whole problem for about 18 years, the first 15 with no knowledge of what "it"...
S and I finally had another epiphany. I bought some books about Trauma. esp one by Judith Herman. Something changed in both of us at the same time that totally...
I have read this book too, and also recommend a book called "Shattered Assumptions" by Ronnie Janoff-Bulman. This gives a more clinical (but still accessible)...
I've been where you are talking about. I have been accused of everything under the sun for three years. Control, being demanding for asking for my most bare...
Are you in the USA? If so, I believe the RAINN (http://rainn.org) webpage lists sexual assault centers all over the place. Those centers should be able to help...
I am interested in forming a partners support group in Rhode Island/Southeastern Massachusetts. Anyone out there located in this region and who is interested...
Wow. I could have written huge portions of this as I struggle so much with what portions of my bottoming-out self-esteem are self-induced, based on what my...
I just joined you group here. My name is Sherri, and I am glad to be a part of this group here. I am roaming the internet to see what I can join and came...
... Welcome to the list Sherri. ... I hope you brought her father up on charges. Christopher Range Matt. 7:1 Yahoo: car05161967 AOL:LCMS0516 ICQ:289958812...
... Hello Christopher! Instead of Charges I had him thrown in Jail, but the charges did not stick being that it was his first offense. His familey was able to...
Hi Sherri. I am so sorry to hear that. How old is your daughter, and what kind of support have you arranged for her? Sharon Miranda <SharonMiranda40@...>...
All I know is that I am getting over $600.00 a month by him for child support. I guess that is half of what he makes. Yes I could easily loose it if he takes...
I asked you what support you have provided to your daughter, and you ended up telling me how much (money) you get out of a separation/divorce from this animal...
... The same goes for me, except, I live in Minnesota. ... I would like to know, if, there is anyone, in, Minnesota. Christopher Range Matt. 7:1 Yahoo:...
I have tried to start a partners' group, but haven't been able to do it for several reasons. I live in Upper Michigan-- but that isn't necessarily one of the...
Kathy, First of all Upper Michigan, please define, even generally. I live near Big Rapids, and would be interested in getting a group started. I don't think...
It sounds to me like the kind of group you want to start is called a peer-to-peer group; one that does not involve therapists or is guided by therapeutic...
Where in Minnesota? There are occassionally secondary survivor support groups at the Central MN Sexual Assault Center in St. Cloud. The center covers 4...
I have never heard the term "secondary survivor". Huh. Is that the same thing as a Partner? I have never really thought of myself as a "survivor" before. But I...
