All, Just wanted to vent a moment and share some views. Over the last couple of months my ex has developed quite the selfish streak in her, even to the point...
I know the tough place you are in-- everyone here understands. But the woman you love can't understand, and that's the tough part... she can't see or hear...
M told me last night that she had told a friend of ours she wouldn't be surprised if I sneakily went off and had an affair. Ouch. Well, I wouldn't. I...
Yes. I can relate to a lot of what you are saying. I feel as if I am at a point in my relationship where I have to take a break and assess what to do next. I...
I am so flooding with emotion right now to have finally found this group...I've spent every night for a few weeks looking around. I found several web sites,...
I don't want to tell you what to do... but please take a look at what you are saying. You say, "If I take too many steps back from him he will view my actions...
AL, Sounds very familiar. I spent a few years laying in bed with my ex feeling miles apart when it was only inches. If I snuggled with her I never got it back....
M has ended our relationship ... I feel a bit numb currently. I think there's hurt in there somewhere, I felt it when she said it, but now I don't feel much of...
Hello everyone. I just found this spot on the web and was happy to see that such a group exists. I have been coping with my new relationship for about a year...
... am at a point in my relationship where I have to take a break and assess what to do next. I still love K very much, and I am doing my best to help him with...
Hutch, My L tried also to end our relationship 5 months ago, I know how heart rentching it is, how empty. lost and alone you feel. Are you able to talk about...
Welcome to our group. We are here to help. I just recently joined myself and they have been so supportive and I appreciate it so much. God Bless you all As...
Hutch, I am sorry to hear this and i am going to say a few things you might not want to hear but here goes: If you can at all stand back and really look at...
... <adamlea@h...> wrote Hello Everyone: Thank you for your support when the floor fell out from under me a few weeks ago. Your responses were caring and...
I need to do this--and I keep putting it off. So I'll go ahead and give a quick version because I need to vent. Words cannot express how glad I am to have...
... Eric, Welcome to the group. I have been through the same thing. I haven't been married to my survivor-partner but, we have been together, close to three...
"Why is it always about you?" I heard that question again last night, for the umpteenth time. "It's always about you," she says, getting clearly more agitated,...
I have no clue what I want to happen now, except perhaps to understand better. Some days I have absolutely clarity, and at other times I am so certain that...
You're right that I don't want to hear this, but I also know it's true. I'm just not ready yet. Maybe I'm not ready yet for selfish reasons -- that I can't...
Hutch, We know it is basically always about them, even if it is about us they will make it about them and then try to turn onto us. When you stop the arguement...
Hutch You need to let it out, even if it is just to us here, dont worry about how much comes out, I had a lot of years bottled up inside of me and it was...
... Hello Chris ... I have seen the same thing. ... That is manipulative!! ... DITTO!! ... Typical, I get the 'poor me' all the time. ... I won't throttle my...
Hutch, Scream, punch the wall, go for a run down the street. Let it out. Feel it and then try and move past the hurt. We are all victims at one time or...
... Did she give a reason? ... YES....Ouch!!! ... Neither would I!! ... ok ... So would I...WITHOUT THE CHILDISH BEHAVIOR!! IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE, I AM...
Hello all: L. and I went for a walk this evening after not seeing each other for a day. She needed time to heal from our argument Friday night she said. After...
Hello, I have been pulling away from my wife more and more recently. It's because I feel like I cannot look at her, touch her, or talk about sex at all around...
... I am pulling away for almost, the same reason. My fiance's incessant childish behavior is 24/7. I don't feel like I am living with a woman. I feel like...
... Hi ... Ok, Seems reasonable. ... I always know where my fiance stands on something...she is right, I am wrong. It doesn't matter what the issue is. ... I...
Sorry to hear this, Hutch... and I'm also sorry I didn't respond sooner (computer is in the shop and I am using a friend's). I think you know that "over"...
I'm glad I have found a place. After years of dealing with my wife, the only way she finally got help was when I "pressured" and unbeknownst to me at the time,...
