Today is a bad day for me, among many these last couple of weeks. I've started therapy, but since it's the beginning it's a lot of getting into my history and...
Hey Scott, That's great that she's opening up in her own way. And you handeled that landlord with much authority. Good job. The letter from your lawyer is a ...
Dear TRY, I know exactally where you're coming from. It's very hard to be a partner. And most of your questions are up to him to answer. It all depends on if ...
Hey, thats what I'm doing too. We have a snow day here today so no work for me either. You don't work at the same type of place that I do per chance do you? ...
Sorry that you are feeling down... ... why ... stuck ... After the first couple visits ... It is really OK to say to your T I really want to talk about X...
'Secondary survivor' is from the pen of my friend Kathy, who used to help out with support here.She is a survivor who loves an ex-partner and hopes to write a...
hi, thank you all for the welcomes and thoughtful replies. It has helped tremendously just to be able to vent. You've given me much to think about as well....
Hey Scott, I actually work at a salon/spa in PA. What kind of work do you do? I got a lot done. I had a tv repair man come over and fix one of my tv's (it was ...
... I hope she writes the book soon because, I now have a restraining on me, not to go on the property of my fiance's training because of threatening to kill...
You're just like the rest of them. I can't stand being blamed for everything and being put in the category of "everyone else" who let her down in her life,...
Hello, I hear you as I know about being blamed. Perhaps all the others did not fail her but she pushed them away just as she is pushing you away now. SOme...
I have been too busy the last few days to sit and give my attention to our group the way I like to, so I have just a couple comments. As balance to some of us,...
Cyn, Thank you so much for your thoughts. They help. Reading what other people experience really does make me breathe out heavily. I made my appointment for...
I pray for clarity and peace for all of us, and especially for your family. I hope for the best, as always. Isn't it amazing how strong we really are? All...
... positivepartnersofsurvivors@yahoogroups.com, "chesapeakebaywoman" ... (my opinion here so I hope no one is offeneded as I certainly put my self in this...
I am the Senior Network Technicion (fancy title for computer geek) for a school district in south eastern MI. I have 5 employees in my charge and I take care...
Sometimes I want to just throw my hands up and walk away from all of this. Those moments so far I have been able to step back, take a moment and keep going....
... Mine says the same thing. He still thinks of himself as a "tool" as he says, and that sex is "all (he's) good for." It's the only way he knows how to...
Rita, Thank you so much for your insight. I think Jae is in her beginning of her survivor/healing stages. But she has, once again, pulled away from me. I...
G feels the best way she can show us she loves us is by cleaning! Rita, she could fix your husband's issue. People die when I admit that I seldom see the...
... What about the guys? I have to do the most of the cleaning because of her looking at cleaning as, a form of being told, she is not good enough. ...
Yeah I definitely agree with da on that …. Just recently I remembered something…..for a long time I knew there was something ….now I knew it was time...
Since they are all "nuts" as far as I am concerned, I will send G over to teach your Sweetie that cleaning makes you clean and perfect. Be right over....
Yesterday G had hidious day and I am freaked out. She went to work and then into "court" where she was massively triggered by the case she was given. Started...
I'll be keeping you and G in my thoughts. I hope that she can learn from this experience and from you. You are absolutely right, it's being "penny wise and...
Hey Scott, That's great news. I'm smiling for you. lol. Your job sounds like a stressful one. So I hope they pay you well. lol. My step-mother is a guidance ...
Dear Bill, It's funny that you mention reiki. I have a friend who is a reiki master and I'll tell you what I beleive in that very strongly. She has helped me...
